Tuesday, October 26, 2010

convalescing

It's been a week since I sprained my ankle.  While the swelling and bruising is subsiding, I'm still not able to walk well and I'm confined to the house where I hobble like an old woman from room to room.  I wish I could say this was one of those times where a respite was much-needed.  Where slowing down and staying in was a blessing in disguise.  The truth is that it's frustrating.  The weather is finally cool enough to go outside and enjoy and I'm stuck inside.  Not to mention a little boy who is simply desperate to go outside and play.  We couldn't go to ballet class yesterday because I can't walk that far.

Yesterday, Dag wanted to take the bus to a bubble tea store where we've been getting delicious chocolate drinks.  I told him I couldn't go because my ankle still hurts.  He burst into tears.  I held him while he cried and said "But chocolate drinks are my favorite.  And I'm thirsty!"

I finally broke down and sent an SOS to my friends here to see if someone can take him outside to play.  I'm one of those people who has a hard time asking for help. All of my friends have asked what they can do to help and I've turned them all away with an "I'm fine but thanks for asking."  Do you have trouble asking for help when you need it?

Due to my condition (which I'm affectionately referring to it now), there hasn't been much sewing here.  Or cooking or baking.  Or laundry.  Yesterday our building had no power from 10am-4pm.  Dag said the batteries were gone.  Which took the pressure off doing any of those household chores.  I took a little of the down time to sew the buttons on a shirt I made for myself recently (Amy Butler's Anna Tunic). Over the weekend, I did manage to cut out the pieces for a bag from Amy Butler's new book.  It's for my grandmother for Christmas and I'm really excited about it.  I kind of want to keep it for myself.  That would be rude, right?  More details on both Amy Butler projects soon...

4 comments:

  1. 1. I LOVE BUBBLE TEA.
    2. The things kids say crack me up.
    3. I also have a terrible time asking for help. Always have. Probably always will.

    Thinking of you and hoping that ankle gets better quickly!

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  2. Reading a book called Midlife Crisis at 30 and it's our generation of women that have moe trouble asking for help; but I will say from experience it is a good skill to learn and one I still struggle with it. Perhaps that is the reason for your condition? Ah the growth of life.
    And yes it would be rude to keep the present, unless she never knew about it--hehe.
    Hoping you can make it outside soon!

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  3. HI Shasta! My computer finally let me onto your blog (not sure why but every time in the past it would not load)...but now it does! I read your whole blog and I love it! Your are a talented seamstress...and of course I love hearing about your adventures in China...and seeing the pics of you, Chris & Dag! :) I hope your ankle feels better soon dear friend!

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  4. I also have a tough time asking for help. But I will say, in time of crisis, when I've had no choice, I did ask and learned and grew from the experience. Maybe this is that time for you :) Sending healing thoughts your way (and virtual hugs)!

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